Solo, Senior, and Thriving
My Transformational Odessy
Imagine this: you’re standing amidst ancient ruins, the golden sun highlighting intricate carvings on weathered stone. Your guide, with the enthusiasm of a radio announcer, points to a mural and says, “This spot—yes, where you’re standing—was the heartbeat of the ancient city.” You’re enthralled. You nod wisely as if you’ve been studying Peruvian history for years, but really, you’re just trying to remember to take a picture before the moment passes. This was me, a senior solo adventurer on a trip to Peru that started out for inexpensive dental work and became a whirlwind of wonder, history, and some genuinely spectacular chocolate.
Gearing Up
Planning a solo trip to Peru wasn’t just about booking flights and packing bags—it was about being prepared to step out of my comfort zone. My first priority was logistics: passport, flights, and itinerary. Those were just the basics, and I knew that additional preparations would make the journey much more enjoyable.
Language was at the top of my list. While I wasn’t planning to have deep philosophical debates in Spanish, I did want to handle simple interactions with confidence. So, I focused on learning essential phrases like “Gracias” and “Baño, por favor?”—two lifesavers in any situation. Still, I knew my Spanish skills had limits, which led me to another wise decision.
To ensure I didn’t end up lost, confused, or ordering something questionable off a menu, I hired an English-speaking driver. More than just a chauffeur, he became my cultural guide, offering insights, recommendations, and even a few Spanish lessons along the way. It was hands-down the best investment of the trip—well, that and packing my stretchy pants for all the incredible Peruvian food (LOL)!
With transportation sorted, I turned my attention to staying healthy. Lima’s tap water, I quickly learned, is about as trustworthy as a carnival psychic. With over 11 million people relying on an aging water system, I wasn’t about to spend precious time getting acquainted with Peruvian plumbing. Rather than take my chances, I invested in a water bottle with a built-in filter. That little lifesaver stayed glued to my side, keeping me hydrated and worry-free.
With hydration and transportation sorted, I created an itinerary that balanced between exploration and practicality. Using tools like ChatGPT, I found must-see attractions that were both awe-inspiring and conveniently located near reliable restrooms—a critical factor in any travel plan. Packing was equally strategic: layers for Lima’s unpredictable weather, comfortable shoes for all the walking, and most importantly, a generous dose of adventurous spirit.
Street Art, Ancient Ruins, and Sunsets
Peru’s beauty hit me like a shot of espresso—intense, exhilarating, and just what I needed. Each morning started with a walk along the Miraflores Boardwalk, where the ocean breeze teased my hair into what I can only describe as “travel chic.” The cliffs, the crashing waves, and the joggers who somehow made exercise look glamorous were a feast for the senses.
December added a layer of magic. The Larcomar Mall, perched on the cliffs, was a wonderland of twinkling lights, oversized nutcrackers, and holiday music. It felt like a warm hug. Even the Pacific Ocean seemed to sparkle a little brighter against the festive backdrop. Shopping there was so visually delightful that I almost forgot to buy anything… almost.
Then there were the tours. In Barranco, I crossed the romantic Bridge of Sighs. Vibrant street art and the bohemian vibe made it feel like a living, breathing art gallery. In San Isidro, I strolled under ancient olive trees and posed beneath a Trumpet flower tree, its blooms cascading like nature’s chandelier. Even my guide looked impressed with my Instagram-worthy shot.
(Photo shows wall beside the steps to the Bridge of Sighs in Barranco, Lima, Peru.)
But the real magic happened at the Huaca Pucllana Site Museum (pronounced WAH-kah Pook-YAH-nah). Walking among the ruins, I felt like Indiana Jones, minus the hat and snakes. Learning about ancient engineering and Peruvian history made me appreciate just how innovative and resilient these civilizations were. It was humbling—and a great excuse to sit down and catch my breath.
Needing a break from all the history, I booked a “Bean to Bar” workshop at ChocoMuseo. Let me tell you, nothing says “cultural immersion” like making your own chocolate. I drank tea made from cocoa bean shells, just like the Mayans and conquistadors, and crafted chocolate bars that were (if I may brag) borderline masterpieces. Sure, I’d stepped out of my comfort zone, but who wouldn’t for chocolate?
Safety and Smart Choices
Traveling solo was both liberating and a crash course in logistics. My decision to hire an English-speaking driver was a lifesaver. He doubled as my cultural guide and impromptu language tutor even as he expertly navigated Lima’s bustling streets and traffic jams. My accommodations were cozy, conveniently located, and—thankfully—came with excellent Wi-Fi to keep friends and family informed about my whereabouts and my escapades.
Meals were another adventure. Peruvian cuisine is a carnival of flavors, and I embraced it with gusto. From ceviche to lomo saltado, each dish felt like a mini celebration, though not everything was palatable. I always asked, “Does this include guinea pig?” to avoid that Peruvian gastronomical specialty.
Of course, there were moments when things didn’t go as planned. Like the time I misread the map and walked an extra mile in the wrong direction. But hey, it’s all part of the adventure, and I got my steps in for the day.
Unexpected Rewards
I planned this trip for affordable dental care, but it turned out to be so much more. The vibrant energy of the city, the cultural discoveries, and the chocolate (did I mention the chocolate?) were precisely what I needed to recharge. I came home not just with new crowns but inspired, with a renewed sense of independence and a treasure trove of stories to share.
Traveling solo convinced me that I don’t need to wait for a travel companion to explore the world. It’s about embracing independence, diving into the unknown, and sometimes, simply saying yes to that extra piece of chocolate, no matter how old you are.
Lessons from the Road: Essential Tips for Solo Seniors
As I reflect on my journey, I realized how much I learned and how much I can share. If you’re considering traveling alone, here are my best tips:
- Plan Ahead: Research attractions and accommodations that you will enjoy. If you love chocolate and book a workshop, you get bonus points.
- Leverage Technology: Apps and tools are your best friends. They’ll help you navigate, translate, and find the nearest restroom.
- Address Language Barriers: Hire a local guide or driver who speaks your language. Trust me, it’s worth every penny.
- Stay Safe: Stick to crowded areas, travel during the day, and keep your valuables secure. And no, your chocolate doesn’t count as a valuable—or does it?
- Pack Smart: Comfortable shoes and a water bottle with a filter are non-negotiables. Packing outfits to coordinate with your surroundings are just style points and will weigh you down.
- Stay Flexible: The best adventures are often the unplanned ones. Be open to detours and unexpected detours.
- Trust Yourself: Confidence grows with each step you take. Travel at your own pace, embrace the unknown, and savor the experience.
Your Adventure Awaits
My reason for embarking on this trip was to restore my bite with new but affordable crowns. My hometown dentist estimated the fabrication and implantation of three crowns at almost $10,000. In Peru, the cost was 17% of that. Those savings pushed me out of my comfort zone, and I’m glad. The entire experience was transformational, filled with laughter, discovery, chocolate, and a trip I will never forget.
If you’re on the fence about taking the leap, find a reason. Then, plan your trip, pack your bags, put on your sneakers, and grab your water bottle. The world is waiting, and so are your next great adventures.
